TMI: Are Some Things Better Left Unsaid in Relationships?

5.  A phase of homosexual experimentation.

Here go those double standards again.  If a woman reveals to her man that in college her and a roommate got extra close one weekend, he may think it’s the sexiest thing ever.  On the other hand, if a man reveals to his woman that at one point he thought that his boy could be more than a friend, it might seriously mean the end of the relationship.  It’s not fair, but it happens.  Sexual curiosity about the same sex is a very common thing and while the occasional thought might pass through someone’s head, it doesn’t necessarily determine someone’s sexual orientation. Some people may actually take that curiosity to the next level and quickly discover that a fantasy should have stayed just that.  If someone’s secure in their present sexuality, I’m not convinced that it’s necessary to let your partner know of every experimental experience you ever had, regardless of the genders involved.