TMI: Are Some Things Better Left Unsaid in Relationships?

6.  Sex, Lies and Videotape.

I couldn’t help but wonder if somewhere the woman featured in the “Tupac Sex Video Scandal” is explaining to her husband why there’s suddenly a video of her floating around on the Internet.  The thing about sex videos and sexting is that it’s all fun and games until the relationship goes south.  Not everyone can handle that level of intimacy and not every partner can be trusted with that type of material.  But now that the deed is done and you know there’s footage somewhere of your freakier side, do you tell your partner?  The thing is if the tape never surfaces, you now have your partner living in a state of paranoia knowing someone else could be watching his woman’s bedroom behavior at any given second.  If the tape does surface, your partner may wonder why you never revealed that this could be coming.  Difficult judgment call.  In the meantime, leave pornography to the professionals unless you’re prepared to deal with what could go wrong.