TMI: Are Some Things Better Left Unsaid in Relationships?
2. Detailed information about your ex’s.
You’re relieved that he actually calls when he says he will unlike you’re inconsiderate jerk of an ex-boyfriend. That coffee spot with the amazing bagels? Your ex used to take you there all of the time. That shirt he just bought? It reminds you of the shirt your ex used to wear ALL THE TIME. If any of these phrases sound like excerpts from conversations you have with your man, then I hate to break it to you, but he might be preparing to leave you. Obsessively bringing up an ex either negatively or positively just makes you sound like you’re not over the relationship. Leave the past in the past when it comes to love lost, otherwise you’ll be having this same conversation with a new guy within months.
