Now, Harper is kinda like Patti Stringer of Millionaire Matchmaker fame, who doles out sound advice for a living but at 40+ years of age, can’t show that it’s worked for her. I mean, we love Mr. Harper. He’s cute, seems kind and really dedicates a large part of his life to helping Black youth. But as an author of relationship books like How Men and Women Can Build Loving, Trusting Relationships, and as someone who’s been in the limelight for almost a decade, we are wondering when we’ll get to see this 45-year-old Harvard grad find Mrs. Right.