Being “Out There” Speeds Up The Process
Having a very active social life and/or hitting da club/bar scene on the regular will definitely increase your chances of landing a date but you should know that your friend up in medical school probably has similar chances of finding the one as you do. Why? Because it’s not about quantity, it’s about quality. Hey, if you really love being at da club and that’s your passion, that’s one thing, but if you’re just trying to be out there for the sake of meeting someone, you may need to refocus your attention.
Finding “the one” is very much about finding someone who is aligned with your values and personality, which is why it’s important to invest in your hobbies and interests. Taking that route will certainly bring you closer to a complementary partner.