How to Turn “Maybes” Into “Yes” in Relationships

7) Maybe he’s the one

Could it be that you’ve found the person who makes every other possibility non-existent in comparison?   First and foremost, it is necessary that you are honest with yourself about whether marriage is something that you truly want.  Marriage isn’t for everybody , and surprisingly most men are very honest when asked if they intend on building a long-term relationship with someone.  It’s true: the best way to guard your heart is to believe what he says, not what you hope he might mean.

The important thing is to take time to truly tell if your partner is someone who you can literally grow old with.  People naturally change physically, mentally and emotionally over time and it’s important to have someone who can commit to the good times as well as the bad.  Your life partner should be someone who unconditionally loves and supports you and understands that your goals and needs may change through the years.  Communicate about future plans like building a family, career goals and basic morals and values.  You won’t agree on everything, but trust your gut.  Like many have said before, when you’ve found the one, you kind of just know.