How to Turn “Maybes” Into “Yes” in Relationships

6) Maybe we should shack up

Building a life and making a home together can be a positive step in the right direction when it’s done at the right time; unfortunately many people choose to make this move in response to patching up an already unstable situation.  When choosing to move in with someone, you should be prepared to carry the financial and domestic burden if for whatever reason the relationship fails or your partner is unable to contribute his/her share.  Co-habitation should be a step to enhance a progressing relationship, not fix a stagnant one.   Keep in mind that people have different living styles and when disagreements arise, you will no longer be able to run and hide for days at a time.  Lastly, before you live with someone else, you want to make sure you can live with yourself.  Have you proven you’re responsible and made significant steps towards independence like paying bills and managing a budget?   If so, maybe it’s time to copy those keys.