How to Turn “Maybes” Into “Yes” in Relationships - Page 2

1) Maybe he will call

Whether you’re 16 or 26, in your dating life you will at some point experience waiting for that dreaded call that never comes.  What happened?  He approached you, you seemed to have a connection, he stored your number and then…nothing.  Well actually, a couple of things may have happened.  Consider the atmosphere in which you met.  Sometimes phone numbers are exactly that: a numbers game.  If you meet a guy in a nightclub or a mall that he frequents every weekend, then he may just be ensuring he has plenty of options.  Also, remember that communication thing?  Many guys aren’t the greatest at it.  So if he hasn’t called he’s possibly chickened out or feels more comfortable shooting you an e-mail or text.  So what can you do to get good use out of that Keyshia Cole ringtone?  Try not to come off as desperate. Men can sense when a woman gets too excited about the possibility of a match, and this can be scary.  It can also come off as insecure.  In addition, if you’re confident in the connection, exchange numbers so that if he doesn’t call, then you can.