When You Didn’t Even See It Coming: How To Deal With Being Blindsided By A Breakup
Don’t try being friends
Being friends freshly after a relationship has ended is just silly. Doing so after a blindsided breakup is even worse. This guy doesn’t deserve a second of your time or an ounce of your care. No matter how strongly you still feel for him and about him, being friends will not mend the heartbreak he just caused. Let it go and put him in the past.