When You Didn’t Even See It Coming: How To Deal With Being Blindsided By A Breakup
Don’t blame yourself
Breakups tend to end in a lot of blaming. In any relationship, it takes two to tango, so don’t put the blame on yourself for the random breakup. More than likely the breakup is due to a mistake on his end. Guys who pull a blindsided breakup typically have something they are trying to hide, and would rather keep it a secret than worry about the impact later on.