2. You Think All Women Are Jealous Of You
“She’s just jealous of me” is usually the refrain heard over and over again from women who have no female friends. It’s an easy out, a cop-out really, and presupposes that the ONLY reason a woman might not like you is because she wishes she could be like you – not because you’re an evil Itchbay or a moron. Claiming other women are jealous of them gives women with Pretty Girl Syndrome an excuse to NOT have to look in the mirror and take a hard look themselves because they might discover their character flaws that make them unlikable. The brutal truth may be that you don’t interact well with others, or you’ve spent so much time getting your hair done and making sure your makeup is perfect that you neglected to develop a great personality or a sharp intellect. Women don’t hate women because they’re beautiful – otherwise, magazines like Vogue, Cosmopolitan and Essence wouldn’t be so popular since they’re filled with gorgeous women. We all appreciate beauty and tips on how to make ourselves look our best, but beauty alone doesn’t make other women like or dislike you. Being a trustworthy, loyal and caring person is how you make friends, not how you look. If you have NO female friends, most likely it’s not because you just look TOO good in jeans. Beautiful women make and maintain close friendships all the time…so if you can’t seem to do that, maybe you need to do some soul-searching. It could be that the insecurity you sense on other women is simply your own insecurity….projected.