Using a sex toy in place of communicating
While a sex toy can enhance sex with a partner, it’s important you aren’t just using one to compensate for your partner’s tremendous shortcomings. A sex toy should be the cherry on top of the cake that is already good sex. It shouldn’t be there because without it, the sex is terrible. If your partner has no idea how to make you feel good in bed, you need to have a conversation about that. It’s important to be with somebody with whom you can have open dialogues about what you need in bed.