How To Turn Romantic Rejection Into A Valuable Lesson
You’re looking at the wrong lessons
Hogi says that some people do try to find the lesson after rejection, but they can turn it inward, and seek more to blame themselves than find a constructive truth. “The reality is when your relationship ends you were a participant in that. There are lessons to learn. But if you’re stuck on this feeling of being rejected, you won’t learn the right lesson. You’ll think ‘Oh it’s because of my body. Or I’m annoying. Or I shouldn’t have said that thing.” Those are just some examples.