How To Have More Sex After Having Kids
Comparison sparks insecurity
New parents can feel disappointed when comparing their feelings of desire today to that original intensity from the early days of the relationship. That comparison can leave new, tired parents feeling like they’re lacking. They can feel, “If we don’t get as excited as we used to, then what’s the point?” Adjust the expectation. Know that you can get in the mood or be in the mood – desire one another – even if there isn’t an urgency to it. Don’t feel defeated because it isn’t how it used to be.