How To Have More Sex After Having Kids
Be affectionate in other ways
Things can get tense around the house when you haven’t had sex for a while. People can be sensitive, and misinterpret every little motion. It’s important to be affectionate with your partner throughout the day, in non-sexual ways. Those passing kisses and hugs soften things and let your partner know that, yes, the love is flowing and the desire is there. Then people can feel less sensitive, and not read into every little thing. “The more you connect, the less you’ll be worrying about (supposed) imperfections” was another helpful thing psychotherapist Wendy Talley said.