They throw me into the mental health/social service issues of their family members
No I cannot help your cousin get social security benefits. No I am not going your aunt as my client. No I am not writing any letters. I have been seen as a resource by men and not a potential partner, which is disappointing. Are we dating or am I your case manager? Men I have dated have jumped to blend my romantic role and job role which has led to the demise of whatever could’ve been.