The Fast Track To Losing Your Identity In A Marriage
Conflict avoidance above all else
Too many couples make the mistake of wanting, above all else, to just avoid conflict. So they pretend to agree with their partner. They don’t speak up. They don’t want to have an argument. But you know what? Your opinions are a part of who you are. You and your partner should be able to survive a disagreement, and, in fact, it’s important you feel free to have them.