Breaking It Down: What Men Think of Things Women Do

Sex on a first date

When a guy GTD (gets the draws) after just one date, he thinks he’s the biggest stud on the block and that he did everything right. His male brain will catalog every move for use in the future. A guy that’s genuinely into you will be into you even more after you sleep with him.

There’s a continually perpetuated idea that how soon you have sex with a man impacts how he considers you long term. A man out to GTD is committed to that goal whether it takes him one date or 10. It’s just a matter of how patient the individual is .

The standard 3 to 4 date period before you invite a man into your bed is formulaic and may work in the short term, but has little bearing on the long term potential between you or any guy. Your previous dating history is likely evidence of that.

In fact, it often backfires, when a guy has to ask himself whether he made a conscious decision to be with you, or whether a relationship developed as spin off of how long it took him to GTD.