The Most Toxic Fighting Techniques
Disappearing
Disappearing to a bar, a friend’s house or the guest room until your partner has “calmed down” or until your partner is “done being angry” isn’t fair. Both people need to participate in the fight. Just because you don’t think your partner has a right to be upset doesn’t change the fact that he is upset. You wouldn’t like it if he walked out on you when you were upset, leaving you to “work things out on your own.”