Ask A Very Smart Brotha: He Says He Won’t Have Sex With Me Until I Lose Weight
Amber: I have a friend who is messing with a guy thats in the service..he’s all about eating healthy & getting in shape…they have been intimate before but now he wont mess with her unless she loses weight & gets in shape?? Is he ashamed of how she looks or does he just really want her to be healthy??
DY: There’s a difference between saying “Hey, I think we should both try to have a better, healthier lifestyle” and “Yeah…I’m not seeing you again until you lose some of that gut.” Your friend needs to forget about this dude.