Ask A Very Smart Brotha: He Says He Won’t Have Sex With Me Until I Lose Weight
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Raven Carter
Crystal: He cheated on me in the past, but through prayer, counseling, and our willingness to work, we moved passed it. I finally forgive him, and things have been great. However, sometimes I have feeling like things aren’t changed, and I am just lying to myself. I guess, am I allowing my insecurities to ruin my relationship?
DY: Cheating can be a traumatic experience. Even if you’ve both taken steps to get past it, it may still take a while for you (and him) to truly put it in your past. But, let’s be clear. It’s not your insecurities that are affecting the relationship. Its the effect his cheating had on your relationship that’s affecting the relationship. Basically, don’t blame yourself.
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