Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Should I Give Him An Ultimatum
Fifth: As happy as I am single I still would like to date. How do I convey to a man that I don’t want to get married but I do want a friendship & he still take me seriously? I don’t want to ruin the opportunity for a commitment but I do want monogamy (if the friendship grows to that).
DY: Tell him exactly that. No need to dress it up or make any implications. Just give him the truth.