Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Should I Give Him An Ultimatum
Sha: Well, if your guy tells you he’s cheated and is cheating, does that make it better than “finding out”? The age old saying, “why don’t you just tell me instead of lying” fueled this question.
DY: I guess. Hearing that your man is sleeping with your sister would probably be better than walking in on them on your futon.