4. He’s Already a Bad Father
This should go without saying, but if the guy you’re dating already has children and he doesn’t see them or take care of them financially, then you should not only reconsider having children with him, you probably shouldn’t even be dating him on that principle alone. A man who helped to create a child but isn’t helping in any way to raise and support him is already showing his true colors. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that he’d be different with your child. Do yourself a favor and drop the deadbeat, because when people show you who they are, believe them.