2. He’s Selfish
This isn’t necessarily a “bad” thing. There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting to sleep in, spend his money on clothes and video games and choose to hang out with his buddies over play dates. That doesn’t mean he won’t be a good father one day; it may simply mean that he’s not ready to give up the comforts of being childless yet. Now, if he has a “me” mentality in general where no one else can be the center of the universe but him, you might want to take a step back to see if his ego would take a hit if he’s suddenly forced to play second fiddle to a baby. Once a baby enters the picture, it becomes the center of the universe. Period. If your man always wants ALL of your attention to be focused on him at all times, he may still be a tad selfish…and isn’t ready for fatherhood yet.