Don’t Be Scaaaaared! 6 Ways to Approach a Guy

5. Send Him a Drink

This may seem bold, and you might be one of those women who doesn’t believe in buying drinks for a man, but this is as clear as it gets when showing someone your interest. This can go one of a few ways. If he’s a gentleman, he’ll come over to you to thank you for the gesture, introduce himself and return the favor. This way you can introduce YOURSELF to him, flirt some more and the conversation should just flow from there. If he’s not interested, he should still come over to thank you for the drink, and maybe you can charm him into taking a second look. Or if he’s not interested AND he doesn’t come over to thank you, then you dodged a bullet because he’s a jerk and you can look at it as charity and keep it moving. The last scenario shouldn’t be an issue though, because if you refer back to #1, you’ve already smiled and made eye contact to establish if he’d be open to receiving a drink or not.