Don’t Be Scaaaaared! 6 Ways to Approach a Guy

2. Compliment Him

So you’re on the train, and you see a guy dressed to the nines. He’s put together from head to toe, from his tie down to his shoes. Don’t just admire him from afar, tell him how fly you think he is. I don’t know anyone who isn’t receptive to a sincere compliment, unless they’re just miserable for no good reason. Be specific. Tell him how nice his shoes are, or how well they pull his entire look together. Tell him he has a gorgeous smile and that his teeth are perfect or that his dimples give him a boyish charm that you find adorable. But whatever you do, be genuine. People can spot a fake a mile away, and know when you’re just searching for something to say versus actually meaning what you say. Once you have his attention by complimenting him, if he finds you equally as attractive, he may respond with a few compliments of his own.