15 Crazy Thoughts About Love and Insecurities All Women Have Had
Maybe I’m a lesbian
If you truly are a lesbian and have never been turned on by a man and feel sexually attracted to women, that’s one thing. But if you felt a slight allure to a girl or three in your life, that does not make you a lesbian. Ask yourself this: would you like to wake up every day to that woman? Would you like to cuddle up with her nightly and watch movies? How about shop at Bed Bath and Beyond together and pick out linens for your shared home? If you can’t picture yourself wanting to do these things—being excited to do them with a woman—then you’re not a lesbian. You just had a brief girl crush and were curious.