Are You A Nice Girl…Or A Pushover?

7. Let Some Folks Go

This may seem a bit extreme, but if you find that your “friends” are not taking a liking to the new you, then it make be time to find a new circle of friends. If you feel you’re not getting the respect you deserve at work because you’re no longer doing someone else’s work or allowing them to take credit for it, consider finding a new job. Knowing your worth and demanding respect is a trait people should admire, not admonish. If your boyfriend, your sister-friend, your family or your boss can’t respect the new you, then it’s an unhealthy relationship that needs to end. There is nothing wrong with being nice…within reason. You can be a thoughtful friend, devoted wife, caring sister, lovable daughter or reliable employee without being a doormat. It may take time and practice, but eventually you’ll grow into a confident, all around great woman, that others will view with admiration once you stop being a pushover and start loving yourself.