The Love Of Your Life: What Actually Makes Love Last A Lifetime?
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Women are great at pretending they don’t want what they want. A guy says he doesn’t want marriage, we say, “Terrific! No problem! Me neither!” Oh, and to that voice in our head that says, “Yes you do…” we say, “Shut up! He’s perfect! Don’t ruin this!” But you know how that plays out: a breakup. You can’t change what you want and you can’t change what he wants so if you’re in a long distance relationship and you want to stay where you are, be sure he wants to move to you. If you want four kids, be sure he wants to be a parent. If you want to have a swingers relationship (hey, to each her own) make sure that’s a concept that excites him too. Those things that you tell yourself you don’t want in the beginning are usually the things that break you up.
