The Love Of Your Life: What Actually Makes Love Last A Lifetime?

Getting mad

You’re not a crazy Itchbay. You’re just human. You think that that seemingly perfect couple you are friends with never fight? Get real. Everybody fights and that’s because no couple has ESP or mind reading powers. Any time you get two people with their own separate minds, feelings and insecurities, there will be the occasional fight. That’s okay. But if you fear speaking up because you don’t want to be “that crazy girlfriend” you’ll end up miserable because issues will pile up in your head. It’s okay to be irrational sometimes and to just have an unwarranted emotion. Men get that (the good ones do at least). Usually, the simplest statement of, “I’m feeling neglected right now” can fix everything. Even if the guy didn’t do anything wrong, he can say something to make you feel better if you just tell him what’s up. If you are with a man who will judge you or criticize you for getting emotional, you’re with the wrong guy.