Is It Possible To Recover From Infidelity In Your Relationship

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The Cheater Can’t Play The Blame Game

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This step is complicated. There is never an excuse to cheat. However, when cheating has occurred, it could be a symptom of an underlying issue happening within the relationship. That doesn’t excuse what the cheater did. But, if the couple wants a chance at rebuilding their bond, they will need to work through any underlying issues in therapy. That being said, another condition that will be important to healing is that the cheater doesn’t play the blame game. If the cheater is asserting, “I cheated because you insert accusation here,” that suggests that the cheater feels their actions were justified. It is important that the cheater understands nothing justifies infidelity.

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