How much time he spends in the bathroom
This is something you learned about each other. Maybe you didn’t know your partner spent 45 minutes on the toilet every morning – you used to be out of the home long before he began that process. Maybe you didn’t realize how long it took him to shower. So that’s why the water bill is so big. It just seems like he’s in there all of the time. It’s gotten to the point when, if you’re wondering where he is in the home, you know he’s probably in the bathroom. You’re beginning to worry about the guy, seeing as research shows most humans have a BM somewhere between three times a day or down to every three days. Now you think he goes too much. Or…if you know a lot of details about what goes on in there…not enough.