That he has his life together
This, like the busy doctor scenario, isn’t about you passing judgment. If a man is between jobs, down on his luck, and living with his parents, you can understand that. People get hit by hard times. But again, you’re allowed to decide what situations you’d like to put yourself in. If you don’t want to be by the side of someone going through the emotional roller coaster of unemployment and all the mood swings and instability that brings, that’s okay. You’d hopefully be there for a long-term partner who went through that, but it’s okay if you don’t want to start a new relationship with someone who is in that place.