That his focus is on you
Are you dating a grown man or a teenager? You may find yourself wondering this if your date spends the entire evening with you texting his friends, scrolling through social media, or watching the game on the bar’s TV instead of engaging with you. In today’s culture, we too easily forgive it when someone is distracted by screens. But ultimately, you can’t get to know someone if they can’t focus. And if they’re like this in the early stages of dating, they’ll certainly be like this when they’ve “got” you and don’t feel they need to put in any further effort.