MAFS: Paige Wasn’t Ready For This Process Either

Vincent

But the way Vincent handled the situation was terrible. The thing about Briana is that she is able to read people very well. While she might be communicating a little too harshly, she is attune to people’s feelings. And she immediately noticed that Vincent’s energy had changed. And she asked him about it right there in the moment, repeatedly. At first, he tried to act like it was nothing. He brushed it off as him being tired or wanting to give her space. Finally, he told her that he felt the way she spoke to him was degrading. She told him she didn’t realize she was doing that. And it wasn’t her intention. If Vincent had been able to keep a level head for just two more minutes, this whole thing would have been squashed and they could have had a great night in their new apartment. Instead, he left.

This is clearly an issue of insecurity. Even if Vincent doesn’t like that type of humor, he knows Briana well enough by now to know that she wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt him. And if he didn’t, he should be comfortable enough to tell her that she hurt his feelings. She would have apologized, learned that he doesn’t like that and they could have moved on. Instead he behaved a bit immaturely leaving the house.