He’s super stressed out
Bless his heart, but I could see my husband stressing out over taking care of me. Just one day of having to incorporate the unexpected tasks of caretaking into his workload had him on edge. He was pulling his hair out. Having to make me something to eat between answering emails seemed to cause him anxiety I would reserve for disarming a bomb. It was very clear that he had a deep understanding that nothing was about to go as planned, for several days, and he wasn’t sure how he would handle it. Meanwhile, that’s the reality of moms and women in general every day. Things won’t go as planned, and we’ll just have to wing it.