Signs Your Teen Is In An Abusive Relationship And How To Address It
Abuse doesn’t come from out of the blue
“Abuse is not something you start out of nowhere,” Hatwood says. “It’s a learned behavior. Any behavior that we accept, or do, it’s because of some sort of observation we made growing up. For me, I was disciplined with a strap. My parents hit me with a belt, but said they still loved me. I didn’t realize it wasn’t okay for someone else to do that. I started to believe that I deserved that kind of treatment and that if a man did not hit me, that he didn’t love me. I would try to make men hit me. That was the only love that I understood at the time. And my daughter went into an unhealthy relationship because she saw her mother in unhealthy relationships.”