Why It’s Hard For Us To Hear People Out And What Happens When We Do It More
We inherited our fighting styles
If you find conflict really difficult to deal with, Matthews says that may not be entirely your fault – it’s something that might have been passed down to you. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t on you to correct it. “People are not equipped to fight in a healthy way. Oftentimes individuals were not taught to listen in their family of origin, therefore they are simply acting out the unhealthy listening skills learned as a child.”