Signs You’re Trying To Fill A Void Rather Than Find Real Love
High expectations and lower letdowns
“Setting high expectations” of your partner and of the relationship is also common for those looking to fill a void with a relationship, says Hussain. “Because the relationship has been chosen to fill a void, there may be expectations that are set for the other person to fill. And if they aren’t met, you end up disappointed. But honestly, the disappointment comes from the disappointment we feel within ourselves.”