Dating Advice That Blocks Authenticity
What’s the purpose behind the reward?
“Any advice that centers around ‘game-playing’ is toxic in my opinion. Much of dating advice is focused on short-term outcomes, e.g. getting someone to ask you out, or text you back, or generally ‘playing it cool,” says Hogi. Hogi brings up an interesting point in that we can get caught up in whether or not someone texts back, asks us out again, or shows interest, without asking why we even want that.