Ways You May Be Encouraging Ghosting
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Julia Austin
You say you won’t sleep with him, then you do
Sleep with him on the first date. Don’t sleep with him on the first date. Whatever you choose to do, that’s fine, but choose it, and stick to it. I think what’s a bit off-putting to men is when you insist throughout the night, “I’m not sleeping with you tonight, by the way” but then you…do. It can make it look like you don’t have much conviction, and perhaps don’t respect yourself. It can indicate insecurities, and a man doesn’t want to see, in person, how an insecure woman reacts to a breakup.
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