Relationship Rules I Used To See As Black And White
Nobody is perfect
Look, yelling shouldn’t be a regular occurrence in a relationship—that’s not a good sign—but to think that you can spend a lifetime with somebody and never yell or say a mean word is to be delusional. Sometimes, our emotions will get the best of us. Sometimes, our anger will be so strong that we forget we love the person and we’ll say something hurtful. Hopefully, it rarely happens. But I now know that it will happen, at some point, and it doesn’t have to mean the end of the relationship.