Relationship Rules I Used To See As Black And White
Eventually, you’re just family
The thing is that, eventually, you and your partner are family, and what’s good for one of you is good for both of you. Likewise what’s bad for one of you is bad for both of you. If there is a time when you make far more than your partner, and paying for more of the rent or more of the groceries is barely a detectable change for you, while paying for half of it would make your partner broke, of course you just pay for more of it. You’re not just going to watch your partner struggle when it’s so easy for you to help.