And stop planning vacations together
Slowly but surely, you let the other areas of your life chip away at your vacation days together. You used to make a point of planning a big trip together, every year. You’d go somewhere for even a full week together. Now, you cut the trip down a day because of a friend’s birthday party happening around that time. And a work project that it’d be best to be on site for. You cut the trip down by another day. Screw it, your vacation has been demoted to having dinner together.