You don’t do check-ins
You know, check-ins. You sit down, maybe a couple times a year and ask, “How are we doing? Are we good?” Many couples feel like, they know they aren’t great anymore, but they just assume that’s what happens to every couple. They don’t see a point in talking about it. But even if there isn’t much you can do to change things, the very act of wanting to check in and see if there’s anything you can do to improve things makes you feel closer.