I Love To Plan, My Partner Hates Logistics. Here’s My Struggle
He nearly double books often
Even after I do the very hard work of getting him to put something in his calendar, when other things come up, competing for that time slot, he doesn’t check his calendar. So then he’ll tell me, “Oh, cool, I just got invited to this new event on date we already have plans!” and I have to tell him, “You can’t go—remember—we scheduled something for that day.” Then I feel like the barer of bad news, all over again, just because this fool can’t check his own calendar.