I Love To Plan, My Partner Hates Logistics. Here’s My Struggle
Missed opportunities for date nights
Want to know how that last scenario pans out? More often than not, the arbitrary date I pick to see my friend turns out to be the only night both my partner and I would have had free for several weeks. That would have been useful information if he’d just checked his damn calendar when he asks. But now I’m seeing a friend that night, and I don’t want to cancel on her because I don’t want to be flakey. So there goes any chance of date night for a while.