If the market is aggressive, then you have to be aggressive. If a place pops up that seems perfect, you two can’t wait until next week when it’s easy on your schedules to see it. Someone else could make an offer by then. You have to go, right now, when it is not easy. You’ll tell your partner that, he’ll get cranky because he has a lot to do today, you’ll say, “But this is about our future,” He’ll say, “I know that—don’t you think I know that?!” Everyone is just busy and stressed, but these conversations don’t help the love in the home.