Myths About Finding Yourself
It happens consciously
You don’t just get to say, “Right now, I’m finding myself” and—poof—it happens. In fact, we tend to find ourselves in retrospect. If you do know that something needs to change and you are willing to do things differently, shake up your routine, and listen to your own needs more, then later—only after doing that for a long time—will you be able to analyze what you learned.